An Afghan woman's powerful call for women's leadership in Afghanistan, sharing her personal journey of breaking barriers and advocating for girls' education despite Taliban restrictions. She argues that women's leadership is essential for rebuilding Afghanistan and creating a future where both genders can work together in equality and justice.
Women are denied from their basic rights of gaining knowledge, going outside, working outside, and recently even the pronoun she has been removed from a big public university, Kabul University of Afghanistan. The Taliban have erased women’s names and their pronoun she wherever it was written by women. In this society, women are removed completely, it means no more female names, no more girls in schools and universities, no more color in the city. Everything seems black and white; the streets are silent, the days become dark, and the nights become longer with their darkness. The only reason is to avoid provoking men (Taliban), to let them live a peaceful and calm life without the presence of women in their surroundings.
But is this really life? Are we alive? Do we still breathe in this air? Do we still see anything in this world except the walls of our houses? Do we still hear anything except restrictions (don’t go outside, don’t take the book, don’t speak)? Do we still have a tongue to move and say something (I am a human, I have the right to choose, I have the ability to work)?
Yes, we are women, we are strong, we are enough and we are capable. We can no longer accept gender inequalities and gender biases. We are making half of the society. We make life complete. We are also here in this world where men exist, and we are mothers, sisters, wives and we are the future leaders.
The silence of Afghan women under Taliban rule
As an Afghan woman, I have faced many challenges in pursuing my education, working in a male dominated society, and stepping forward as a young leader. I, Khatira Ahmadi, come from a family where no women were educated, yet I was the first to choose to break these barriers and fight for women’s rights. I began within my own family and relatives, encouraging parents to let their daughters study and helping them enroll in schools and learning centers.
When I was in high school, I refused to stay silent. Despite difficulties, I sought education and took leadership roles to support others. I have taught Afghan girls online, now serving many leadership programs as the president of a university club, and led community projects. For me, leadership means standing with people, understanding their struggles, guiding them, and helping them find the best way to achieve their rights and goals.
Leadership is not about position, power, or superiority; it is about justice, fairness, and equality among people in the society. Who can we truly call a leader? Is leadership only for educated people? Are leaders born with this skill, or do they learn it?
In my opinion, a leader is anyone who cares about others, brings positive change, and stands beside people in both difficult and joyful times. Leadership is not limited to education or titles. A mother is a leader who guides her children and cares for her family. An elder sister can be a leader when she supports her siblings and helps her mother. Even community elders, who voluntarily solve problems, arrange events, and give advice, are leaders. True leadership comes from responsibility, service, and selflessness not from force or fear.
I believe no one is born as a leader. Instead, society, circumstances, and family experiences shape us. Challenges push us to take action, to become the voice of the voiceless, and to work freely for the betterment of others.
Teaching Afghan girls online
A society is filled with love, respect, and color when men and women work together, are treated equally, and have the same freedom to speak up without fear. No one can ignore that women are making half of the population.
When women are allowed to lead, they bring balance and compassion to decision-making. In Afghanistan, women leaders can reshape the future by ensuring girls return to schools, by creating opportunities in business and the economy, and by promoting peace and justice in communities. Women leaders inspire not only other women, but also men, to believe in fairness and equality.
Without women’s leadership, society remains incomplete and unjust. With women, Afghanistan can become a nation where every individual regardless of gender has the chance to grow, contribute, and live with dignity.
Women leaders fight for education and equality in Afghanistan
My dream is to be a leader who could fight against injustice and bring Afghan girls back to classrooms, who proves that women are not weak, and who builds opportunities for the next generation. I want to see an Afghanistan where women and men work side by side, where leadership is based on ability, not gender, and where young girls can dream freely without fear.
I believe that empowering women is the key to rebuilding Afghanistan. Women’s leadership can create a future full of education, equality, and hope. Every girl who learns, every woman who leads, brings Afghanistan closer to a brighter and more just society and independent country.
Afghanistan cannot have a future without women’s leadership. Women are not just half of the population, they are the heart of society, the builders of families, and the leaders of communities. I may be one Afghan woman, but I carry the dreams of thousands who are waiting for the day they can learn, work, and lead again. We will not be erased, we will reshape the future of our nation.
Afghan women shaping the nation’s future